Do You Really Have to Make A Choice Between Threesome And Your Girlfriend

Are you like any other guys, who consider having a threesome as their number one sexual fantasy, but feel too embarrassed to talk about their fetish to their girlfriends? Maybe you should change a perspective: think about how aroused she would be when she finds out how confident, adventurous, kinky, honest and open minded her own boyfriend is. Therefore you need to be completely honest with her, describe to her the details of a three way relationship, reassure her that this relationship is safe and trustworthy. Once again, you will miss the opportunity of the ultimate fun of having a tinder threesome, which you have always being longing for, by being too shy and conservative.

Then you might ask me: “My girlfriend might ask me to make a choice between her and having a threesome, what should I do?”

The answer is simple: It’s not about getting intimate with another girl, it’s about take the relationship to another level by proving to her that even breaking the physical barrier with others is not going to change anything between you. And confirm her that it is all about her. And it is all about how you say it: “Sweetie, I cant wait to experience this with you together. Let’s make it our very first threesome memory. You don’t have to worry about anything since no one in my mind is more attractive than you.”

Also, make it a task of both of you. Starting from signing up on couples dating apps, tinder for threesomes and tinder for couples, looking for a three way partner, to buying those scented candles to set up the mood together. The whole point is to make her a part of the whole journey.

But, no matter how nice you are, you are still a guy, who can’t fake it anymore in front of an attractive woman, let along naked. You want to get close to her, touch her, and caress her. It’s all OK. What matters is to convince her even before the threesome that you care about her.

In a word, don’t make your girlfriend end up feeling ignored. Forget about the confusing terms such as bisexual dating, kinky dating, threesome dating or polyamorous dating. All you need to do is to be honest and straightforward with her about what you want from this relationship, about what you are thinking, about what do you want from her; All you need to do is to communicate with her, even it takes millions of times, till she understands that it’s all about her.

Speaking from experience, I have had a lot of threesome experience with my long term partners of that time, and it all worked out. Life is short, and all you gotta do is to make the most out of it in a smart way.

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